Validation

Sometimes we know what we are doing is right for us, but we need some sort of validation.  At least that I what I need.  I find myself pondering and questioning if I am being difficult or making more out of a situation than I should.

Today I went to get my hair done.  My hair dresser also does my mother's hair.  She commented to me that the only time we ever have drama in our lives, there is one person involved.  It was not a surprise that my toxic sibling is the one person she referred to.  It did validate my decision to remove them from my life.

Validation also serves me as a reminder to be strong and never relent, never give in.