Wednesday, March 2, 2022

How low can you go?

 A toxic person is tricky.  They present an image of being a nice person while sowing seeds of evil.  But how far will they sink in this mission to corrode the people around them?

In the case of my toxic sibling, I realize there just is no limit.  They will use anyone to target me.  Even my 13 year old granddaughter!  How appalling!  The reality is that there is no path for TS (toxic sibling) to get to me.  They are looking for allies to hurt me.  My daughter is also not allowing her child to get sucked into the drama.

The method of this TS is to begin a conversation with someone I know.  A friendly conversation.  TS then turns the conversation to how they were victimized and how I am a horrible sister and human, blah blah blah.  Those comments are hidden digs aimed to plant seeds of negativity.  If they are not cut off, TS will reach out to the person a few days later and add more negative comments and plant more divisive seeds.  And so it goes on.

I am one to overlook much.  After all, we are all human and make mistakes.  However, after 56 years of this TS and the drama, hurt, stress, and anxiety, I know I cannot let the little things slide.  They have to be addressed immediately, before TS can sow more negative and divisive seeds of hate and drama.

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